No miracles will unfold in the new year unless you win the lottery. What you started in 2020 will continue its uptrend or downtrend trajectory in 2021. You will harvest what you planted. The coming 365 days are the continuation of the past 365 days. Rather than wishing and hoping a happy new year, use […]
Why do people fail to eliminate a heavily reinforced, deep rooted acquired belief, habit or a thought? Why do they fail to develop and sustain new desired habits? People forget that beliefs, habits, norms or thoughts took so long to materialize. Eliminating a deep rooted belief system does not happen overnight. It does not work […]
Let’s start with this fact, the costs of being impatient are immense. Impatience is not a lack of patience. It is the lack of passion. If you are unpassionate about something, it weakens your determination which affects your patience. There is a huge correlation between patience and passion. This pair has a substantial effect on most […]
He or she is very successful. What does success mean here? If the standard is not agreed upon, confusion wins and the conversation about it is a waste of time. Getting a job in Apple for a fresh computer science graduate is a success. Changing the world through technology is a success, Steve Jobs, former Apple […]
It is passing the point of no return. I wish I could bring the time back”. Regretting doing stuff is the most most painful feeling that humans could ever feel. The most effective cure is to execute your plans and projects. Postponement and procrastaination are best friends. Breaking up their friendship is crucial.
Actions speak louder than words. This is incredibly true. When embarking on a new goal or a project. Do not shout them to the whole world. Shout them loudly only to yourself then your goals become flesh. When you execute your goals, people hear the noise without even opening your mouth.
Do not copy and paste. Do not be a me-too person. Be your own voice. Raise your voice. Hiding is too easy. Ah well, raising your hand and voice makes you vulnerable and vulnerability hurts. It exposes you. It turns lights on you. To the Wanna-Be and Wanna-Do not to the status quo keepers. All […]
Success stories are glorified and celebrated everywhere. In schools, they reward straight A’s and demote B’s and C’s . Failure is a stigma for most people. Everyone talks about success, its arts and techniques. Few who teach us how to fail and what to do when we fail. Do not tell me succeed, teach me […]
Creativity killers. Yes, they are the factories, I mean the companies of the twenty first century. “Swim with the trend” encouragers. Keep fitting. The machine needs you. Be and stay a cog. Do the job. “You were not born to be a cog in the giant industrial machine. You were trained to become a cog”. […]
Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are. Befriend a pessimistic person and pessimism covers the sky. Befriend an optimistic and life smiles in your face. Hang out with a loser, and you see only the dead ends. Spend some time with successful and focused people and instantly you […]
