When beliefs are in conflict with actions

Although leadership is a practicable skill that can be developed and nurtured like any other skills, it is largely driven by the set of values, convictions, principles, and beliefs that leaders intrinsically developed and cherished through their lives. I met a banker recently who strived to convince me that he possesses all the great leadership […]

The metric is deliberately rigged.

The standard of measurement is the number of followers and likes. This is how people on social media measure their success and fame. Social media machines have controlled people by manipulative metrics. Psychological manipulation is deviously used to change people‚Äôs behaviour. Social media trigger the chemicals in the brain which are responsible for gratification, reward, […]

Contradicting states of mind

Why do people fail to eliminate a heavily reinforced, deep rooted acquired belief, habit or a thought? Why do they fail to develop and sustain new desired habits? People forget that beliefs, habits, norms or thoughts took so long to materialize. Eliminating a deep rooted belief system does not happen overnight. It does not work […]

How to develop your emotional intelligence? Part 3.

In order to develop your emotional intelligence, understand the nature of the problem discussed in the previous posts below. First grow your emotional intelligence then grow everything else. Grow your emotional intelligence, but do not be the psychologist. Emotional intelligence means that you are a successful social animal. You can relate to others successfully. Intelligence […]